Create Your Own Destiny

Published on Nov 12, 2025 • 4 Min read


Grow into an Inspirational Leader 

I was amongst the younger one in the family,  who believed that my voice was less relevant. When the frustration of not feeling understood and accepted caught up with me, I inquired within and realised that all my reasons were simply a reflection of fear. In that process, I recognised how deeply the need to fit in shapes our behaviour and choices. We try to mould ourselves to gain acceptance, often losing touch with our authentic voice in the process. Leadership, success and happiness are a possibility that exist for all of us. I had to step out of my box of illusions and embrace the unknown to unleash my true potential. Stepping onto a journey of self transformation is the best gift that I gave to myself. As a result, it reconnected with the happiness within and share my happiness with the world. 

We all carry within us the potential to shape our destiny. Many underestimate this power, believing instead that circumstances, background, or privilege define success. Actually, destiny unfolds through personal mastery, a conscious alignment of vision and values, and consistent effort.

Excellence is not limited by ethnicity, gender, or age. Excellence reflects inner discipline, clarity of purpose, and commitment to growth. Whether you're a student, a leader, or an artist, your destiny begins with the commitment to rise beyond barriers and adversity. 

Commitment to a Higher Vision

Every successful life is grounded in a bold vision that is dedicated to serving something greater than yourself. The struggles of walking in uncharted paths unlocks the leadership and build the resilience to achieve the vision.  It also gives clarity of purpose and direction to every effort. 

Leaders who commit to self-transformation as a way of life, look beyond short-term gains and inspire others to rise together. Success for them is a tribute to collective excellence rather than individual glory.

Excellence: A Tribute to Purpose and Perseverance 

Excellence is not a destination; it is something you practice every day. It comes out of discipline, values, and grit. With each small, purposeful act of showing up and sticking it out through uncertainty as well as  learning and adapting continuously, the momentum mounts.

Success, therefore, is not an accident but a tribute to such continued and focused action. It is built through the perseverance to grow by embracing challenges as an opportunity to transform, and the humility to keep on learning.

Scarcity Is a Mindset

Many people in the world believe that leadership is a gift for the privileged few. Not at all; in fact, it is the courage to chart your own path against all odds that defines leadership.  

Scarcity is a mindset. Allowing issues like money, gender, ethnicity, age to limit you, is simply a sign of succumbing to the dogma. When you commit to make life happens by fearlessness harnessing the inner resourcefulness with passion and creativity, life expands. This shift in mindset starts changing the way you approach challenges: you begin to create out of abundance, rather than compete out of fear. The real growth happens when your outer actions start to align with the inner transformation.

Leaders That Inspire

Recently, the election of Zohran Mamdani as Mayor of New York, epitomises bravery and clarity of purpose. His journey is a reflection of how focusing on empowering people contributes to success. 

Similarly, this spirit sparkles in the hearts of Indian women and girls who are breaking barriers in sports like the Women’s Indian Cricket Team to entrepreneurs like Kiran Majumdar Shaw and astronauts like Kalpana Chawla. Their work and accomplishments reflect their grit to write their own script and the courage and conviction to be equal in society. 

A host of Indian CEOs in the USA, like Sundar Pichai, Satya Nadella, Indra Nooyi, Niren Chaudhary, have shown how transformational leadership blends intellect with empathy and innovation with values. They remind us once again that greatness is not inherited; it is cultivated by persistent dedication.

Writing Your Own Destiny

Writing your destiny calls for living with awareness, courage, and commitment. It means waking up every day and choosing growth over fear, faith over doubt, and service over self-interest.

Mastery starts with small, focused steps taken with sincerity and clarity. When your actions align with your purpose, life responds with possibility. The more you trust your inner compass, the more the path ahead unfolds.

A vision that serves the greater good will always gather the momentum to pull others forward collectively. Your destiny is not a story waiting to happen; it's one you are writing with every thought, decision, and action. Own your power and work with the spirit of excellence to lift others higher as a beacon of possibility.

 

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